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Everyone is physically and romantically attracted to different people, which is completely normal.

A heterosexual person is attracted to people of the opposite sex, so women like men and men like women. Heterosexuals are sometimes called straight.

Some people are homosexual, which means they are attracted to people of the same sex. Men who like other men are often called gay. Women who like other women are often called lesbians. A bisexual person is someone who is attracted to both men and women.

There's no need to put yourself in a box – take your time to figure out who you are.

Telling people about your sexuality or coming out, can be difficult because you may be worried about how your family or friends will react. Wait until you feel comfortable to do this - there's no set time to it so don't let anyone pressure you into coming out before you're ready.

Safer sex

All clinics and health professionals, no matter what your sexuality, will give the same level of help and support. Don't let fear of prejudice prevent you from asking for help.

The information about safer sex on this website is just as relevant to you if you are lesbian, gay or bisexual. Barrier methods of contraception such as condoms protect against STIs. Safer sex is not just about protecting yourself, it is about respecting yourself and your partner. Remember, it's ok to carry condoms. You can get free condoms in Medway from C Card outlets.

For more information visit:

• NHS Choices - Sex and young people ›
• www.stonewall.org.uk ›
• www.eachaction.org.uk ›
• www.avert.org.uk ›

You can also ask a health care professional a question by using our Ask a Question service.