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Young people often tell us that they would prefer to learn about sex, relationships, responsibilities and values from their parents rather from anywhere else.

But 40% of young people say they get little or no advice from their parents.¹

The 'Everyday Conversations, Every Day' report from the Department of Children, Schools and Families found that over a quarter of teenagers feel confused, worried and scared that they don't have the right information at a time when their friends are starting to think and talk about sex.

Your sons and daughters are already learning about relationships and sex from soaps, magazines or friends. It is important to talk to your children about these issues from a young age so that they have the knowledge and confidence to face important choices in the future.

Research shows that talking to children about sex and relationships leads to:

• Later onset of their first sexual experience
• An increased likelihood to engage in safer sex and use contraception when they do become sexually active
• Better skills to negotiate the type of relationships they want

86% of parents believe there would be fewer teenage pregnancies if parents talked more to their children about sex and relationships.² We know it can be difficult or embarrassing to talk about these issues, but there is plenty of free advice and support available.

Find out more about Medway's Speakeasy programme - a free, relaxed and informal course aimed at helping parents and carers confidently deal with issues around sex, relationships and growing up.

Read our ten top tips on talking to teens about sex and relationships.

For information about further services offered in Medway to support parents and families, please contact Medway Family Information Service on 01634 335 566 or visit their website ›

¹ Teenage Pregnancy Strategy: Beyond 2010 - Department of Health and Department of Children Schools and Families.

² Teenage Pregnancy Strategy: Beyond 2010 - Department of Health and Department of Children Schools and Families.